、清闲，忙完了羽毛球赛和进修，总归是能空闲下来相亲了吧？过完年就28span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;times new rman&qut;;
ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;times new rman&qut;了，谈恋
少说得要个两年时间才好谈婚论嫁吧？就算现在一谈一个准，结婚也3span style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;times new rman&qut;;
ms-hansi-fnt-family:&qut;times new rman&qut;了，要是这相亲又几经波折，你到底打算让爸妈等到什幺时候？我们岁数大了可带不动孙子。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;孟维酝酿了一下，复说：&ldqu;妈，我现在有对象了。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;他胆战心惊地等了好一会儿，他才看到老妈的文字复：&ldqu;什幺时候的事？能给妈看一下那姑娘的照片吗？&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;没多久，等我国了再跟你说。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;为什幺非要等国？就让爸妈看一下
家长什幺模样又不难。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;现在正处着呢，等我觉得适的时候再跟你们介绍。&rdqu;孟维已经觉得手心冒汗了。
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;儿子。&rdqu;老妈发了条音频过来，&ldqu;你现在这个 年纪谈恋不再是玩玩、打发寂寞用的，说白了就是奔着结婚去，妈提醒你不要
费时间做没指望的事
。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;不要费时间做没指望的事
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&qut;times new rman&qut;最难过的时刻就是像现在这样，和 妈妈隔着窗户纸互相试探，孟维没有十足地把握去面对捅
窗户纸的后果，他能做的只有尽量地把这个状态再往后拖一拖，尽量地抓紧做些铺垫和缓冲。
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&qut;times new rman&qut;他把他的想法和欧隽坤分享，告诉他自己现在的无助和担忧。
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&qut;times new rman&qut;欧隽坤在skypespan style=fnt-family:宋体;ms-ascii-fnt-family:&qut;times new rman&qut;;ms-hansi-fnt-family:
&qut;times new rman&qut;那
问他：&ldqu;你有多你爸妈？&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;非常，没他们就没有我。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;如果你他们就不要欺骗他们，告诉他们你最真实的自己。只要你自己做好准备，任何时候我都可以奉陪到底。&rdqu;
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&qut;times new rman&qut;孟维正如去年和欧隽坤商量出柜时那样，这次和欧隽坤在意大利过新年并没有刻意隐瞒爸妈，始终对欧隽坤和父母这边都示以坦
的态度。
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&qut;times new rman&qut;&ldqu;我现在最怕的是我爸妈不能接受，我妈已经在暗示我她 不同意我们的事&rdqu;
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